After not allowing myself, a former television reporter, to watch the news for weeks because I found the doom and gloom about the economy too stressful, I watched several CBS news clips from the Children of the Recession series online, and when I watched as an emergency room pediatric nurse practitioner showed the x-rays clearly depicting the multiple injuries of a young child — TWO broken arms, TWO fractured legs, I couldn’t hold back the tears any longer. And neither could the reporter on the story.
There is a marked rise in child abuse in the country and it is being attributed to the stresses related to the economy. But that is only one of the many ways that our most precious resource in this country is being harmed. As you can see in other segments in the network-wide series by CBS, children are being harmed psychologically, they are not receiving the medical care they need, they are ending up homeless or separated from families. This is not the life any of us dreamed of for our children, or for anyone’s children.
What are we going to do about it?
Yes, I said we.
Your children and my children may be in their warm beds tonight with healthy food in their bellies, but they are going to school with children who are not. What are we going to do about it?
With one out of ten children not being able to get the medical care they need or delaying routine visits, a child near ours is sick and getting sicker. What are we going to do about it?
With jobless rates around the country anywhere from 7% and higher, a child near ours has one, maybe two parents unemployed and is living in a house full of stress, worry, and maybe worse — violence. What are we going to do about it?
Families are spread further apart, governmental support systems such as social workers, homeless shelters and state- or county-funded counseling programs have all suffered cutbacks — there are more problems and fewer safety nets.
Non-profit organizations, often dependent upon grants, individual donations and corporate sponsorships are all scrambling to survive as well. They, too, are trying to help more, but with fewer resources.
As a society we have the ability to more connected than ever with every form of technology imaginable. But are we using it to help this youngest generation through this tough time? Are we using it to match needs with solutions? All it takes is the right person at the right moment and you can change a child’s life. Do it often enough, and you just may change an entire generation.
At a conference this weekend, I heard that my generation, Generation X, is characterized by a “belief in survival” and jaded by growing up in the shadow of nuclear weapons, divorce, AIDS, and crack cocaine. What a legacy. Let’s try to create something better for this generation. Let’s not let their young lives be forever shaped by the economy, but rather teach them the lessons of compassion and community and doing the right thing.
Through my affiliation with the Silicon Valley Moms/DC Metro Moms, I was able to participate on a conference call with Katie Couric, senior producer Katie Boyle, producer Tony Maciulis, and Sonya McNair, VP of Communications. During this call, she let us know CBS News (The Early Show, Evening, and Face the Nation) is shining a light on the issues, through a network-wide look at Children of the Recession this week as well as through weekly segments over the next several weeks. When one blogger asked if she found the task depressing, she said, “I feel it is really important work and I feel there is not enough of this kind of journalism going on… and I feel it is higher calling for all of us and yes it is very upsetting and heart-breaking and depressing but the only way that we are going to get these families help is to expose the problem and so I think we feel like there is a higher purpose here and that is why I think we feel really motivated and excited. I haven’t felt this proud of my work in a long time because we can have an impact. And that is why we need your help — we can’t do it alone in this fragmented media culture, like my colon cancer work, it can’t be a one-shot deal, we have to keep pounding away at it and be committed to it and keep reminding people. We’re doing something that ultimately will be impactful and hopefully, really helpful to people.”
I’m no longer a television reporter, and I’m certainly not as powerful as a national network, but what I, a mom and a blogger, can do is this, I will tell you of programs and initiatives as I know of them and either highlight them myself, or invite them to guest blog here. You are also always free to post comments or email me about groups/initiatives/ideas you think should be put out there. Will you join me, in looking for ways to help — small or large? Will you help get out the word on the GOOD things that can happen in these turbulent times?
I hope so. Because the next time I weep, I hope it is with joy.
- I know of two programs that are packing non-perishable “weekend lunches” for children who are on the free hot lunch program at school in Fairfax County — because these kids may not get lunches on weekends otherwise. These two groups are working “under the radar” right now. If you are interested in helping them, email me or post here telling me you are interested and I will contact you.
- Louie’s Kids, which helps fight childhood obesity, is just $10,000 short of its goal to bring it’s successful Fit Club Program to a school in Alexandria. Read about their compelling program and success and see if you know someone who can help them in the final stretch. Duke University reports that with parents having to buy lower-cost foods, we may see a huge increase in childhood obesity.
- The Junior League of Northern Virginia (of which I am a member and a leader, in the interest of full disclosure) focuses on helping children in Northern Virginia succeed. We have many programs, including Back-to-School Health Fairs (immunizations, physicals and backpacks jam-packed with school supplies), an innovative My Life photography program and Kids Can character-based program in local homeless shelters, and the Kids in the Kitchen nutrition program to help fight childhood obesity. We’re always looking for new members, community partners, sponsors, and donors.
- Katherine K. Hanley Family Shelter (of which I am on the Community Advisory Board), a Fairfax County shelter run by Shelter House, Inc. is always looking for volunteers, community partners, sponsors and donors. This shelter has done amazing work in “rapid rehousing” for homeless families, but the need continues to grow in these tough economic times.
- The faith-based community is “filling in the gaps” — look to your own faith home (church, temple, mosque, etc.) to see what they are doing and how you can get involved.
Silicon Valley Moms Post and Round Up: http://www.svmoms.com/2009/05/silicon-valley-moms-group-katie-couric-children-recession.html
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- Connect With Your Teens Through Pop Culture and Technology: Children of the Recession
- House Of Prince: This is why they called it “the depression”
- PunditMom: Katie Couric and Children of the Recession
- Mommie Blogs: Conference Call With Katie Couric
- Caffeine And A Prayer: Children Of The Recession: We Have To Act NOW To Save A Generation
- Laptop TV Mom: CBS Reports With Katie Couric: Children Of The Recession
- Hope4Peyton: Talking With Katie Couric about the “Children Of The Recession”
- Chefdruck Musings: Children of the Recession
- Parentopia: So yesterday we were on a call with Katie Couric……
- LA Story: Speaking of the recession, with Katie Couric
- MissLoriTV.com: And They All Fall Down; the domino effect of children and the recession
- Beccarama: Live Blogging my call with Katie Couric